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Spend any time with Kristy Starling and you will hear her sing. |
Kristy has made the transition from student life to up-and-coming recording
artist with surprising ease. Indeed with her powerful, richly textured voice,
bubbly personality and an assured stage presence, she seems a natural for a
music career. In fact, Kristy has come a long way. Once a shy young girl too
timid to sing in public, her story shows what one can do with a little hard
work, a whole lot of determination, and a willingness to face one's fears.
The youngest of two in a close-knit, middle class family, Kristy was raised
surrounded by music. "We all grew up singing, all the time," she says.
"My mom says she sang to me every night when she was pregnant with me; to
this day she says she honestly thinks that's why I sing as well as I do!"
Kristy's earliest performances were as a young child, singing in church and
at school musicals. Recognizing the youngster's talent, family members and
teachers pushed her to develop her vocal skills. But somewhere between childhood
and adolescence, Kristy developed something else: a paralyzing stage fright.
Suddenly, performing anywhere except the bathroom mirror was out of the
question. Still, her family urged her to sing -- even if it was just around the
house with the headphones on.
"My parents would hear me singing in the bathroom or just around the
house and she could tell I had a little soul in me, I liked to do little runs
with my voice. So she thought if she bought some tapes of that kind of music, I
could practice singing like that. She bought me a bunch of Whitney Houston and
Mariah Carey tapes and I ran those things until they wouldn't run anymore! I
memorized every single note."
Teachers and friends urged Kristy to perform as well. One teacher convinced
Kristy to sing in an ensemble contest, hoping that as part of a group she'd feel
more at ease. Even her best friend pushed her to sing, telling her, "you
need to do solos, it will be good for you!"
While it sounds like practically all of Oklahoma City was on her case, what
ultimately got Kristy to face her fear came from her own heart. "I wanted
to sing so badly! And I wanted to be good so badly. So I just knew that I had to
do this. And I would look at my mom: she has a beautiful voice, but she never
sings because she gets real scared, she's really timid. I saw that and I
thought, I cannot just back off and not sing.
"I didn't do very well at first because I was just so scared. Every time
I would sing my voice would shake and it would be horrible. But I got more and
more confidence in myself; finally I got to the point where I was like, Okay! I
can do this!"
Indeed, as Kristy began performing in the Fine Arts competitions, she started
winning. By high school she had won the state competition, finishing ahead of
hundreds of fellow female vocalists. She finished second in the national
competition two years running.
By her 20’s, competing and performing had become old hat. Married to Adam in
Fall of 2002, finishing her senior credits, Kristy planned to find work leading
a church music program. Adam, who had studied youth ministry, was fielding
several post-graduation offers from churches. The young couple seemed on their
way to a life in the church.
Then Adam's mother heard about another national singing competition --
"Today's Superstar," NBC News’ morning show competition complete
with live vocal performances and audience voting via the Internet. Once again
urged by family and friends to compete, Kristy -- along with 4,100 other
wannabes -- mailed in a videotape, never imagining she'd be chosen.
Amazingly, Kristy would become one of six finalists. Over the course of one
frantic fall, she'd fly New York City twice a week for performances and a
harrowing on-air voting process in between writing term papers and studying for
exams. Kristy lasted through five elimination rounds, only to lose in the final
round to a singer from Atlanta. And she did it all without a trace of the stage
fright that she'd worked so hard to overcome as a young teenager.
Though Kristy took second place, her performances had captured the attention
of David Foster and Warner Bros. Records. Foster, the legendary producer behind
such divas as Whitney Houston and Celine Dion, wanted to work with Kristy;
Warner Bros. was interested in signing her to a record deal. But early on in her
Today show interviews, Kristy had professed an interest in Christian music. It's
a conviction she holds fast to today.
"Christian music is an expression of who I am and what I believe
in," she stresses. "I guess to me it's the only thing that I could
honestly sing with everything that I am. I don't think I could sing anything
else and really give everything I have."
Now preparing her debut for Warner Bros. Christian Music Division, Kristy and
Adam have had to make a few adjustments. In an odd bit of irony, graduation has
been postponed but Kristy's music career is about to take off. This has given
her an opportunity to consider her own goals.
"I want to be a role model to young girls and even to people my own
age," she declares. "I want to be a person who moms can look at and
say ‘I want my daughter to be like her.’ These days people look for that
genuine quality, which is exactly what I strive to be on stage and in the
everyday. God has always promised to be faithful to me and I want to be in
faithful in return."
That's a powerful message amply demonstrated by the dramatic changes in
Kristy's own life. But that's not all. If nothing else, Kristy's recent
whirlwind proves one thing:
"I just want people to know that their dreams can come true. If you try
hard enough, you can do anything."